Nice guys who try bending over backwards to attract a partner always get hurt the most.
Why?
Because having a victim mindset attracts narcissistic emotional vampires who prey on your weakness. They’re not attracted to you.… READ MORE
Many men think it’s impossible to be morally good and sexually attractive to women at the same time. They think they have to sacrifice one or the other.
Why does this happen?
It’s rooted in the myth of “Nice Guy Syndrome.” But being a “nice guy” and a “good man” are polar opposites. … READ MORE
Have you seen these two caricatures in the dating world?
One is the arrogant man whose obnoxious behaviour brings him attention from women. And the other is the nice guy, who believes that helping a woman will earn her affection.… READ MORE
Do you stay at the office later than others, or skip your favorite activities in pursuit of achieving more? Do you rely on your status to get attention from women?
If you do, the idea of loving yourself unconditionally might scare you.… READ MORE
Men who use success to fuel their self-esteem are running on a never-ending treadmill. They are restless and insecure, worried they’re not enough. They feel they always have to achieve more to be worthy of love.… READ MORE
Are you an achiever, working hard for success?
You may believe that your worth comes from the value you provide. As a kid, listen to mom to earn more hugs. As an adult, work harder to get paid more.
But in a long-term romantic relationship, you don’t want to compete with other men in a battle for “most value.” That isn’t love.… READ MORE
You may have found dating tips that suggest manipulation and dishonesty will improve your dating life. Wear flashy clothes, put on an act, become Alpha.
But manipulation turns off healthy women. And when your dishonesty fails to bring you love, you might find yourself bitter and alone.… READ MORE
If you’re casually dating different women, waiting to find “the one” for a long term relationship, your approach may be working against you.
Success in a long term relationship has different requirements than casual dating.… READ MORE
Are you hoping to “play the field,” find that special woman, and start a loving relationship? Players who try to score are focused on short-term wins. But the loving relationship you want is not a short-term win.… READ MORE
Everyone has “inner parts” that need love and acceptance. But most men don’t know how to handle their emotions when their needs aren’t being met. As a result, these vulnerable “parts” make you feel unlovable.… READ MORE
