Most self-help and personal development books, courses, and coaches are toxic. They teach that you need to become your “best self,” otherwise you’re unworthy of love.
That’s not true.… READ MORE
There is a true self somewhere locked inside your psyche. Accessing this true self is the key to being your most attractive self.
But what if your true self still isn’t attractive?
A lot of guys ask me that question because they’re worried their true self isn’t attractive.… READ MORE
When men try to make their personality more attractive, they make a fatal error. They think that incorporating more attractive qualities “cancels out” their true self.
But this isn’t the case.… READ MORE
Are you an achiever? Do you dream about being the wealthiest person in your family and unlocking the best possible life?
Well, you’re probably making a lethal mistake:
Achievers put off their present enjoyment for future fulfillment.… READ MORE
Taking up martial arts, business, or anything else that takes you out of your comfort zone can be one of the best things you do.
But it also has a dark side that sabotages all joy and love in your life.
In this episode, you’ll discover the danger of being too driven in fighting, business, and life.… READ MORE
Training martial arts can make you more attractive, more confident, and help heal many of the childhood traumas you faced. Especially if you were bullied in the past.
Being bullied in childhood makes you vulnerable, afraid of confrontation, and worse with women as an adult.… READ MORE
There’s only one way to experience lasting fulfillment, love, peace, and joy.
The problem is that most men get this backwards. They think they have to make a bunch of money or achieve status in order to be worthy.… READ MORE
A lot of young men looking for love fall into a dangerous trap:
They think their value—whether social, economic, entertainment, sexual, or otherwise—is what attracts women to them. But if you build a relationship based on value, you will never find true, unconditional love no matter what pickup artists tell you.… READ MORE
Neediness beheads your attractiveness. Many people already know this, but they don’t understand what causes neediness or how to reduce it in a healthy way.
Instead, they take an unhealthy approach and pretend they don’t have any needs.… READ MORE
Tuning into your “dark side” seems scary. It forces you to smash the persona you’ve worn for your whole life. And it feels like exposing yourself for the world to see.
But nothing gives you more happiness, success, and love than integrating your dark side. … READ MORE
