The “Fixer Mindset” plagues every nice guy who can’t seem to even talk to an attractive lady, let alone start a relationship with her. If you continue letting this broken mindset subconsciously guide you, it can end in complete catastrophe:
Like bending over backwards for an ex who still lives with you, and starts bringing new guys into your apartment.… READ MORE
Did you see the latest Jonah Hill controversy with his ex-girlfriend?
She shared their text exchange on Instagram, and while they both brought up some good therapeutic points, each of them handled the situation in a poor manner for varying reasons.… READ MORE
Just because you haven’t found love or a successful relationship doesn’t mean those two things don’t exist. Yet, this is one of the many myths the Red Pill movement tricks you into believing.
The truth?… READ MORE
Listeners and fans have written in for quite a while now wondering what my opinions are about the Red Pill movement, which was largely inspired by Rollo Tomassi’s book, The Rational Male.
The Rational Male and the Red Pill movement tries to teach guys how to be “alpha.”
But there’s a big, fat problem with this ideology:
It’s filled with bitter resentment:
Towards “alphas.”
Towards women.… READ MORE
There’s been considerable backlash about the Barbie movie from both critics and listeners of my show.
The problem?
Well, most of the criticism comes from certain types of men. In fact, I had to search the darkest corners of the internet just to find a negative review of Barbie that made a decent point.… READ MORE
If you really want a relationship, then I have bad news:
Most guys aren’t ready for a relationship yet. And even if you somehow find a relationship and experience success within it, there’s a good chance that you’ll sabotage the relationship—causing heartache and pain and divorce.… READ MORE
A listener recently wrote in and asked the question:
“Do women want a dominant, aggressive and masculine man in long term relationships or do they prefer men with emotions?”
Now, there are a lot of different angles to attack this question, and I hit on the major ones in this episode.… READ MORE
Most guys are a lot needier than they think because neediness reveals itself in hidden ways. For example, the simple act of worrying if you’re attractive is a tell-tale sign of neediness that flies over most guys’ heads.… READ MORE
Have you ever heard “nice guys finish last?” Imagine this: you’re super nice, know how to flirt with women, but after months of talking to an attractive woman, you get rejected. It always seems to go well until you fall in love with her, only to have it spat back in your face.… READ MORE
Here’s a true story: James was at a party with his girlfriend. There was a hilarious, tall, and handsome dude who kept making her laugh — obnoxiously loud.
She was giving him attention and practically ignoring James.… READ MORE
