Do you buy into the myth that success alone brings happiness and fulfillment? The techniques 95% of Americans use to strive for success, growth, and personal development guarantees they won’t be fulfilled in the long run.… READ MORE
The idea that men need to be fixed is wrong. It results in fake progress, toxic growth, and unnecessary amounts of pain. Men quit because of this outdated concept. Many therapists (even some of the ones in the IFS Therapy Directory) peddle and hold onto this toxic idea.… READ MORE
Vulnerable guys are ugly. That’s what women think at least. Millions of men around the world have been told to show off their vulnerable side. And when they do? Women judge them ruthlessly, making them get angry and frustrated.… READ MORE
Work hard, play hard.
It’s one of the most dangerous attitudes to adopt if you want a strong, fulfilling, and sexually active relationship. Many men try to party well into their 40’s, leaving their wife and child behind.… READ MORE
Can you remember the last argument you had with your partner or a past partner? Most couples can’t remember the specifics of why they fought. Instead, they only remember the emotional baggage from it.… READ MORE
Self-help seems like a viable way to get rid of your neediness or insecurities. But it actually heightens these feelings — and makes you miserable.
Why?
Because most self-help gurus, courses, and books promote toxic growth.… READ MORE
As many as 90% of loving relationships transform into cold indifference. This is true even in intimate, long-term relationships.
In fact, the more intimate your relationship becomes, the more likely you are to sabotage it.… READ MORE
Finding a healthy, intimate relationship isn’t as easy as downloading a dating app or watching pick-up artists on YouTube. In fact, these routes can lead you down a dark path which amplifies your neediness.… READ MORE
Most men who are unsatisfied with their dating lives turn to online dating gurus to fix them. But this is a fatal mistake.
Why?
Because the advice peddled by online dating gurus actually fill you with insecurities and anxiety.… READ MORE
Most dating advice for men is not only incorrect, but it’s downright lethal to your happiness, fulfillment, and dating life.
Why?
Because other insecure men prey on your insecurities. And their “advice” actually makes you needier — which repulses women even further.… READ MORE