We’re taught from a young age that success is the best path to a fulfilling and satisfying life. So achievers dedicate themselves to achieving, thinking it will bring success.
The problem is, success is not the same thing as fulfillment.… READ MORE
Most achievers who want more from life—whether in their relationships, career, or fulfillment—turn to best-selling self-help books. But most of the “wisdom” in these bestsellers doesn’t stand the test of time—at least not when compared to ancient texts that have helped people for thousands of years.… READ MORE
Your earliest relationships when you were a child can significantly impact your relationships as an adult.
How?
Well, when you’re young, you develop one of four attachment styles that can make or break your relationships today.… READ MORE
Do you find yourself hopping from one toxic relationship to the next?
If so, here’s a tough pill to swallow: You’re the common denominator—especially if you think you’ve just gotten unlucky in relationships.… READ MORE
Nothing is more destructive than a toxic relationship. It’s more dangerous than a bad diet, a lack of exercise, and even smoking. Energy-sapping relationships don’t just mess with your mental health, they also shorten your life.… READ MORE
The longest running study in history has proven, with 80+ years of data to back it up, that your relationships are the single most important factor for your longevity, happiness, and even your career.… READ MORE
Therapy is one of the best ways to better understand yourself, your emotions, and your past. Especially with how they impact your present.
Until it’s not.
Staying in therapy for too long can turn into an endless loop of processing feelings without ever moving forward.… READ MORE
Your decision-making process is the single most critical skill you’ll ever need. Figure out how to make good decisions that align with your values, and your life will become immeasurably better. Neglect this skill and your life can turn into a nightmare faster than a speeding bullet.… READ MORE
There is a massive, misery-inducing downside of success:
While achievements are great, they aren’t enough to make life meaningful. But most achievers have been tricked into believing the exact opposite.… READ MORE
If you’re an achiever, whether you notice it or not, you’re on a dangerous path.
Why?
Well, most achievers fall into something I call the “Achiever’s Trap.” It’s an endless vicious cycle of achieving.… READ MORE