Neediness plagues every relationship, and achievers tend to be more needy than other people.
Why?
Well, the achiever’s desire to achieve often stems from neediness itself. Achievers think they have to earn every bit of love and approval in their lives.… READ MORE
Here’s a harsh truth for many men to understand, especially the pleasers and fixers:
It’s not your job as a man to continuously attract your woman or to make her happy. Instead, it’s about understanding the elements that naturally cultivate attraction and happiness within a relationship.… READ MORE
One of the most common and deadly fears people have is the fear of failure. And this fear in particular has dire consequences:
It creates a life where every decision is clouded by the terror of making a mistake.… READ MORE
There’s a certain problem that touches the core of men’s struggles, but it often flies under their radar. This problem sabotages intimacy, confidence, and connection, leaving only anxiety and depression in its wake.… READ MORE
One of the best ways to become more attractive to women, to feel more fulfilled in your life, and to generally boost your happiness is by building up your internal self-worth.
But this practice is easier said than done.… READ MORE
There’s a psychological condition that’s been flying under the radar for too long. It’s a form of PTSD that builds up from more minor-seeming traumas you experienced throughout your life. And it may be the saboteur of your dating life and relationship success.… READ MORE
There’s often a fine line between love and neediness, especially for men. Women have a sixth sense to sniff out neediness, which can leave you confused and unconvinced unconditional love even exists.… READ MORE
Many men don’t understand the difference between sadness and self-pity. And this lack of understanding comes with a big cost: You sacrifice joy and growth when you confuse sadness for self-pity.
Now, this isn’t your fault, per se.… READ MORE
A relationship is an investment from both parties. When these investments tip to one side or another, it plants the seeds of resentment and destruction.
This is why nice guys and people pleasers who bend over backwards for their partner find themselves cheated on and heartbroken.… READ MORE
We’re wired to value what we work for more highly than what comes easily. This especially applies to relationships.
But a lot of men accidentally plant the seeds of resentment in their relationships because they have a desire to prove their worth to their girlfriend or wife.… READ MORE
