Many younger guys—and some older—wonder how much they should tell their significant other about their addiction-filled past.
Should you just spill the beans and get it out of the way as soon as possible? Or should you wait until your significant other brings it up?
While there’s no correct answer, there are some pros and cons to each approach.
In this episode, you’ll discover how to handle this personal question in your own relationship.
Show highlights include:
- When you should share your porn addiction with your partner (and when it could scare them out of the relationship) (1:35)
- Why your past doesn’t have to ruin your present (even if you have a history of traumatic nightmares) (4:04)
- The insidious way identifying yourself with a past addiction binds you to it forever instead of freeing your from it (5:04)
- How lying to your partner poisons your relationship from the inside out (even if they never find out you lied) (6:16)
- The weird way reversing your addiction helps you love more than if it never happened to you (11:01)
- Why being proud of your ugly past unlocks more freedom, love, and joy than shame ever could (12:01)
- The wicked way confessing your past traumas and addictions to your significant other actually worsens your relationship (16:37)
- Why treating your girlfriend or wife as your own personal therapist will make her want to leave you lickity split (18:59)
- The only ingredient you need to build a loving, happy, and long relationship (22:08)
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