Something weird happens when your husband ditches his addiction for good. He heals much faster than you. And this causes turmoil in the relationship.
The husband wonders why his wife seems distant and disconnected. That’s because the wife often thinks this is another lie and waits for the addiction to come back in full force.
Here’s the good news:
If you’ve reached this place with your partner, there is hope to save your marriage. And it’s closer than you think.
In this episode, Jasmine joins me to reveal how wives heal slower than their formerly addicted partners. Listen now and kickstart your healing process together.
Show highlights include:
- How a 12-step couple meeting can save your marriage (even if a 12-step program makes you feel like an addict) (7:22)
- Why divorce might be the best option (even if your religion discourages it) (8:49)
- The insidious way trying to “win” in a relationship causes heartbreak for both of you (9:17)
- How to spot the exact moment you’re not an addict anymore (even after decades of addiction) (9:45)
- Why freeing yourself from your addictions doesn’t free your spouse from your history (and how to prove to them your addiction no longer suffocates you) (10:22)
- The sneaky way former addicts make their significant other feel unworthy to be with them (14:10)
- How pushing your newfound beliefs that freed you from addiction onto your wife delays the healing process (22:16)
If you want to radically change how much control you have over your emotions in as little as 20 days, you can go to https://thefreedomspecialist.com/feelbetternow and sign up for the Choose Your Own Emotion course.
If you or somebody you know is looking to drop the ‘F’ Bomb of freedom in your life and break free from addiction, depression, anxiety or anything that’s making you feel flat-out stuck, head over to https://thefreedomspecialist.com/ and book a call where we can look at your unique situation and give you the roadmap you’ve been missing.
If you’d like to buy a copy of my book, Is That Even Possible?: The Nuts and Bolts of Energy Healing for the Curious, Wary, and Totally Bewildered, you can find it on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/That-Even-Possible-Healing-Bewildered/dp/1512336041