Everyone has an inner critic who beats up on your mental health. And the worse your trauma is, the harsher your critic becomes.
But everyone approaches this problem backwards:
They think criticizing their inner critic will scare it away.…
There are two paths to transformation: The Fixing Method and The Acceptance Method.
The former is what you’ll get from any self-help book or life coaching. And while it might work for a short burst of time, it creates even more mental chaos down the road. …
The self-help industry is a multi-billion dollar industry which feeds off your insecurities like a poisonous leech.
And while they promise to boost your confidence, attractiveness, and happiness, it actually does the exact opposite.…
Many guys ask me if it’s possible to be vulnerable and sexually attractive women.
And while this answer may shock you: Yes you can. In fact, you can become more attractive by becoming vulnerable.
But here’s the problem:
Most guys confuse vulnerability with the notorious “Attraction Killer.” This “Attraction Killer” poisons every single attractive quality you have and makes love impossible as long as it haunts you. …
Matt Reeves’s new movie, The Batman, is a case study in psychology.
Both Batman and Riddler have deep psychological trauma. They both handle it in immature ways. And it reminds me of almost all guys who are trying to do better with women.…
Most men think their emotions are a sign of weakness. Then they wonder why attracting love seems impossible.
Here’s the truth about attraction:
It’s an emotion, just like happiness and sadness.…
Most men struggle with their emotions. They either suppress them and pretend they don’t exist. Or they let their emotions overwhelm them and turn them into a helpless victim.
Both of these strategies backfire.…
Men fall into two categories when it comes to emotions:
They either think it’s a sign of weakness. Or believe emotions are everything.
In both cases, this causes your emotions to control you, instead of the other way around.…
Most self-help and personal development books, courses, and coaches are toxic. They teach that you need to become your “best self,” otherwise you’re unworthy of love.
That’s not true.…
There is a true self somewhere locked inside your psyche. Accessing this true self is the key to being your most attractive self.
But what if your true self still isn’t attractive?
A lot of guys ask me that question because they’re worried their true self isn’t attractive.…
