Every guy knows that neediness is the #1 most unattractive quality to women. But why then are so many guys still needy?
Well, it’s hard for men to detect their own neediness. Women have evolved to detect neediness.…
Many men transform themselves to become more attractive to women: They excel in their careers, drive flashy cars, dress well, and get fit. Yet they stay lonely and only attract women for short-term flings or one-night stands.…
READ MOREMost men believe they’ll finally be worthy of love if they achieve more. It’s easy to believe you’ll find love once you get that promotion, once you drive that fancy car, or once you’re only wearing luxury brands.…
READ MOREWe treat our exiled parts of our psyche like an untrained puppy:
When we’re young, we love them and play with them—until they pee on the couch, chew our mom’s shoes, or tear up the furniture. Then we shame, scold, and neglect them.…
Most guys who want to find unconditional love fall into the trap of self-help:
They think the only way they can earn unconditional love is by becoming the best version of themselves.
But self-improvement is actually based on insecurities.…
Men these days think masculinity means one-upmanship and being the “alpha” of the group. Or worse – they think masculinity is inherently toxic.
Both these views are flawed and lead to crippled self-worth.…
Why do “bad boys” take home hot girls every night while good guys sleep alone?
Bad boys are nothing special in the looks department, they won’t take care of her, and they’re hardly charming.
They get girls because they don’t give a damn. …
Guys who struggle with women often fall into the seductive (and lethal) “Alpha Myth” trap.
They believe the only solution to their dating problems is becoming more of an alpha. But this isn’t true.…
Dr. Strange 2 is deeper than an action-packed superhero movie.
In fact, the main theme in the movie deals with grief. And there are several psychological lessons embedded in the movie which will help you attract and keep love. …
Most ultra successful people suck at relationships. Look no further than Will Smith or Johnny Depp. Despite their riches, their relationships are in shambles.
Why?
Because of a trap many achievers fall into.…
