In order to find a loving relationship, you need to become somebody you’re not.
You need to rock a new haircut, fill your wardrobe with designer clothes, and hit the gym 24/7. You need to morph into Sean Connery’s James Bond.…
There are 3.9 billion women in the world.
And trying to attract every single one of them is damn near impossible. But when men optimize their Tinder profile for short-term hookups, that’s what happens — they’re making themselves “mass-market” to attract women.…
Do you want to be ‘the man’, a ‘player’, or a so-called ‘bad boy’?
I’m going to assume a big, fat no. Most guys aren’t looking to bed 50 women every week. They’re looking to settle down with a beautiful, attractive, and mature wife — not endless one-night-stands with club bimbos.…
Men feel like they lack true purpose and meaning in their relationships.
Why?
Dating apps and most dating advice promote short-term dating strategies that only work on immature women. These strategies leave men without meaning, purpose, and true connection when they try to settle down.…
Women.
Can’t live with them, can’t live without them.
This is definitely true, and there are certain types of women you must avoid like the plague (unless you like dealing with suffering, feeling helpless, and an empty bank account.)
Before you think, “Oh yeah, I’ll just avoid the clubs and meet someone with morals,” I have to stop you right there.…
There are two big myths most people believe—my former self included—about therapy which sabotage their results. Especially over the long-term.
Even if you have initial success on your therapeutic journey, believing in one of these myths can undermine your progress.…
Sadness is something most guys struggle with. But it’s the one emotion they repress the most. And this repression leads to increased stress, anxiety, and depression. Not only that, the increase in cortisol associated with stress can lead to changes in heart rate, motivation and sleep.…
READ MORELast week we covered how “pain is not an emotion.”
Ok, great. But what do you do about an emotion that feels painful?
In today’s episode, you’ll discover exactly how to deal with painful emotions (even if you’ve been to an IFS therapist before and it didn’t work.) You’ll also discover three emotions that immature people consider to be painful.…
Pain is not an emotion.
Bold statement, I know, but emotional pain actually comes from resisting the emotion that you consider to be painful.
In other words, it’s not the pain that’s hurting you, it’s the emotion you find painful.…
Ted Bundy, Jeffrey Dahmer, and John Wayne Gacy. Without a doubt, some of the sickest individuals to roam America in the 20th century. But according to IFS Therapy & Richard Schwartz’s book, “No Bad Parts”, they aren’t pure evil.…
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